The heartbreaking loss of children to drug-related incidents has prompted two grieving mothers to advocate for more comprehensive drug education in schools across Northern Ireland. Sandra Larmour and Fiona Spargo-Mabbs are uniting their efforts to ensure that young people receive the necessary information about the dangers of drugs, hoping to prevent future tragedies.
In October 2020, Sandra Larmour’s daughter, Jeni, tragically died shortly after arriving at Newcastle University for her studies. The vibrant 18-year-old from County Armagh fell victim to ketamine supplied by a flatmate.
Fiona Spargo-Mabbs faced a similar tragedy when her son, Daniel, lost his life after taking ecstasy at an unlawful rave in January 2014. In memory of Daniel, she established The Daniel Spargo-Mabbs Foundation, focusing on educating youth about the risks associated with drug use. As part of their mission, they commissioned a school play written by Mark Wheeller, inspired by Daniel’s last words to his mother before attending the party.
The play, titled “I Love You, Mum – I Promise I Won’t Die,” has toured schools across England and Scotland and is set to make its debut in Northern Ireland in spring 2025.
Both mothers emphasize the need for open discussions about drugs between parents and children. Sandra reflects on how she warned Jeni about drink spiking but did not address other drugs sufficiently. She believes there are significant gaps in drug education that need addressing.
“We must ensure that young people are aware of what substances are out there and the potential consequences,” Sandra stated.
Fiona echoed this sentiment, revealing that she had assumed Daniel received adequate drug education at school—only to discover later that he did not.
They both recognize that peer pressure plays a role in young people’s choices, with Sandra noting Jeni’s drinking prior to her drug use as indicative of a desire to fit in at university.
The play aims to make these experiences relatable for young audiences. Fiona believes it can serve as a powerful medium for conveying critical messages about the realities of drug use.
With the upcoming production and increased collaboration with educational authorities, both mothers hope their efforts will prevent similar tragedies from occurring in the future.
Sandra Larmour expressed a heartfelt desire: “I want everyone in Northern Ireland to know Jeni’s story so they can protect their own children.” Her commitment ensures that Jeni’s memory lives on while striving for a safer environment for all young people navigating the complexities of drug use and peer pressure.
As discussions continue around enhancing drug education in schools, both women remain hopeful that their advocacy will lead to meaningful change and ultimately save lives.
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